Nowness
Being in the moment

Nowness

Nowness is a movement for creative excellence in storytelling celebrating
the extraordinary of every day. So start investing our moments in ways to make the most.

Nowness is the powerful practice of being in the moment. It seems that there is no good word to define the feeling we all reported having that signals a change, an evolution or a reinvention that doesn’t sound like a cliche or implies that where we are at in life needs to be dramatically changed. You are given only one moment at a time – and you are wasting that moment in planning or worrying about the future; but the future never comes. What comes is always here, now: it is a series of nows – one now, another now – you are always living in the now.

RADICAL TRANSFORMATION OF PAST TO FUTURE:

There are some tales which usually involve a Radical Transformation and imply you leave everything from the past behind and create something entirely new. You are generally by yourself in these stories. This present moment is beyond time. One can live in this no-time - no-space paradigm while fully breathing the present in its totality. Past and future are created in our mind. They are only distractions... Up to now you have lived as a becoming with a desire of doing this, doing that, trying for this, trying for that. You have never given yourself any rest in being.

SO WHAT IS THE PRACTICE OF NOWNESS????

What’s Nowness? The term implies satisfaction with who we are at our core, that this state is normal and a precursor to a new burst of creative self-expression. It is a state of perpetual openness to whatever may come before you, whenever and however it does.

The Practice Of Nowness has been created through an acute awareness of one’s thoughts, feelings, and emotions. In our modern day society, being present doesn’t always come easily.

STATE OF NOWNESS IS A CURIOSITY OR WONDER :

The State Of Nowness is something that transcends social identity and the categories we are put in by society. Its curiosity and wonder. Those younger because of the speed of technology may have shorter periods of Nowness. The over-stimulation and distraction that come from technology, social media, work, family life, social engagements, and the never-ending “to-do” lists regularly take us out of the now and into a memory from the past or a fear about the future.

REALITY OF NOWNESS :

There are different tools. But so do we. So we think that the way forward is to collaborate and begin a conversation about the tools that exist, and those we want to create, when we are dreaming and evolving in our times of Nowness. Tools that can help us be the best version of the identities we already are. Cultivating the power of being present comes from creating the space to observe one’s mind and one’s self. This skill of observation allows us to look at our own lives and the lives of others without attaching judgment or analysis. Using this awareness, we become mindfully attuned to all that is around us through our five senses (smell, touch, taste, sight, and sound) as well as our physical sensations.

LIVNG IN NOWNESS IS THE REAL ESSENCE OF LIFE :

These are the signs of our bodies that we often tend to ignore. In a society that tells us that happiness is on the other side of success and that fulfilment is somewhere across a distant horizon, it’s no wonder that many of us have a hard time staying out of our mind and in the present moment. The mind-set that so many of us adopt is one of always staying busy — always chasing, always pursuing, always onto the next thing.

For example, we wake up in the morning and think about going back to bed, we shower and think about breakfast, we eat breakfast and think about our work day ahead, we go to work and think about coming home, we arrive home and think about all of the work we left behind... It’s exhausting. And what’s most frustrating is that many of us don’t even realize we’re doing it until most of the day is already done, if ever. It’s important to remember that the states of past and future exist in our mind and that the only state that we can ever truly savor is the present moment. This moment that we’re in right now.

Years... Months... Weeks... Days... Hours... Minutes... Seconds…. These all boil down to bigger and smaller collections of moments. The present moment is where we should be focusing all of our present energy. Because if we’re living a good moment, the days will take care of themselves; if we’re living a good day, the months will take care of themselves; if we’re living a good month, the years will take care of themselves. It’s easy to let your minutes, hours, and days stroll by when the months, years, and decades seem so far away.

NOWNESS is a movement for creative excellence in storytelling celebrating the extraordinary of every day. So we give it a nod for all the inspiration that it gives us.

WHAT’S ONE MINUTE IN COMPARISON TO THE LENGTH OF A YEAR ?

It feels tiny and therefore insignificant. But the truth of the matter is, there are no insignificant minutes – or even seconds – of a person’s life. Every moment counts; every moment matters. So, how do we make the most of our moments?

HOW TO PRACTICE THE NOWNESS?

To start, we have to actually be present in the moments that are given to us. If we’re not mentally present, how can our moments be fully enjoyed? And interestingly enough, one of the best ways to become more mentally present is to drop the mind. We have to train ourselves to stop thinking about the past and the future and learn how to just be. This is not to say that we shouldn’t plan ahead, set goals, prioritize, or reflect — these are crucial strategies for managing time effectively and investing our moments in ways that make the most sense for us.

But what we should do however, is to designate blocked out time for the above mentioned strategies and spend all of our other moments opening our senses to the wonders of the world around us. If you drop the mind and practice the Nowness, suddenly you become happy for no reason at all. Then happiness is just natural, just as you breathe. For breathing, you do not even need to be aware; you simply go on breathing. Conscious, unconscious, awake, asleep — you go on breathing. Happiness is exactly like that.

Everything is interconnected, and our individual lives exert a profound and potentially unlimited influence. The more we believe that our actions do make a difference, the greater difference we find we can make.

Guidelines for Behaviour

It is only possible to stay at Ashram if you are taking one of our residential courses/retreats or are an established Buddhist practitioner doing your own formal Buddhist retreat of a minimum of 10 days duration.

Since Ashram is a semi-monastic meditation centre and not a guesthouse, we ask all of our retreatants and visitors to observe the following rules of discipline in order to maintain an atmosphere conducive to inner reflection and meditation:

  • Respect all life: do not intentionally kill any living being, even small insects.

  • Respect others’ property: do not steal or take anything not freely given.

  • Be honest and straightforward: do not lie or intentionally deceive others. This is easy when observing silence!

  • Be celibate: no sexual activity. This also includes no holding hands, hugging, massages and other physical displays of affection.

  • Be alert and mindful: avoid intoxicants such as alcohol, drugs and cigarettes (we encourage you to stop smoking while here, but if this is impossible, one can smoke at a designated place within the centre boundary).

  • Be considerate of others’ silence: keep silence in the appropriate areas and at all times during residential courses, especially in the Gompa and the dormitories. No singing or playing music and in general, maintain a quiet demeanor while on the property.

  • Be considerate of the monks and nuns: dress respectfully (please no shorts above the knee, tank-top shirts or tight and revealing clothing).

In order to keep the atmosphere conducive to inner reflection and spiritual pursuit and to minimise distractions during the course, students on our residential courses and retreats are asked to abide by our basic code of discipline listed below.

  • Please settle all outside communication before the course begins. Telling friends and family that you will be out of contact for the duration of the course and sticking by that decision significantly reduces distraction from investigation into the workings of your own mind! Likewise, please settle your travel arrangements etc before you come to here!

  • You are expected to observe silence (no talking at all) from the evening of the first day until the end of the course.

  • Do not leave here for the entire course.

  • Participants must attend all sessions of the course and come to sessions on time.

  • Please put all communication / entertainment devices (laptop / mobile phones /cameras / MP3/CD players) etc into our safe at check-in.

  • Please be gentle in your behaviour and sensitive to fellow group members.

“Gompa” is a Tibetan word which we use for Meditation Hall. Because a Gompa is the location of study, meditation and devotional practices, Buddhists consider them to be holy places. In this tradition, the following modes of behaviour are considered respectful in a Gompa and we ask you to follow them while here:

  • Do not point your feet towards the teachers, the altar or any holy object.

  • Do not put Dharma materials – prayer books, texts, Dharma books or notebooks with Dharma in them – on the floor, or sit or step over them.

  • Do not lie down or do any yoga exercises in the Gompa at any time.

  • No idle chit-chat in the Gompa (ie. You can ask the teacher questions during class, but do not talk with other students).

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Our Classes Timetable

Time Schedule
1:00pm Check-in
2:30pm Welcome and Introduction Talk
3:30 – 4:30pm Teaching Session 1
5:00 – 6:00pm Teaching Session 2
6pm Dinner
7:30 – 8:15pm Guided Meditation
Time Schedule
6:45 – 7:30 am Guided Meditation
7:30am Breakfast
9:00 – 10:00am Teaching Session 1
10:00 – 10:30am Break
10:30 – 11:45am Teaching Session 2
11:45am Lunch
2:00 – 3:00pm Teaching Session 3
3:00 – 3:30pm Tea Break
3:30 – 4:45pm Teaching Session 4
4:45 – 5:15pm Break
5:15 – 6:00pm Guided Meditation
6:00pm Dinner
7:30 – 8:15pm Guided Meditation
Time Schedule
6:45 – 7:30am Guided Meditation
7:30am Breakfast
9:00 – 9:45am What comes next ? Talk
10:00 am Advice for further study/practice and Feedback session
12:00 – 1:00pm Picnic Lunch
1:00 – 3:00pm Check-Out
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